By Choi Gabi, Editor
Photo Credits: Yoo-jin Do, Photographer
As the year draws to a close, heartwarming stories of donations and generosity emerge, reminding us of the modern interpretation of "noblesse oblige." This phrase, which originally meant "noble obligation," suggests that the purpose of having assets is not to boast, but to contribute, much like the duty of a chicken is to lay eggs rather than display its comb. While many may lack aristocratic titles in contemporary times, meaningful charity transcends simple sharing.
Heather Choi, CEO of Show Me Your Heart Foundation (SMYH), exemplifies this sentiment. A gifted musician, Choi graduated from the prestigious Manhattan School of Music. Despite her current distance from the violin, it remains close to her heart. Choi's life took a dramatic turn in 2008, when her only son, Eugene, passed away from a brain tumor at age 15. The tragedy propelled her into a new world of purpose and compassion.
Choi harnessed her personal grief to become a source of inspiration and support for others. Her involvement spans various institutions, including the Hackensack University Medical Center and Newark School of the Arts. Her nonprofit, SMYH, founded in 2017, transcends specific categorizations to support individuals and groups with meaningful missions, unrestricted by domain.
Through numerous events, such as concerts, receptions, and scholarship programs, SMYH’s mission is to enhance societal contributions rather than seeking personal benefit. The foundation supports diverse fields, leveraging extensive resources for the greater good.
Choi's initiatives, including the Heather’s Valentine Hat Luncheon, have gained significant traction. Funds raised have supported worthy causes, such as the donation of pianos to hospitals and art competitions for children. These ventures demonstrate the powerful effect of integrated community support.
Choi is an esteemed Board Member at Hackensack Medical Center, motivated by her son’s own healthcare journey. Her commitment is further underscored by a $3 million scholarship donation to a collaborative medical school, aimed specifically at supporting Korean-American students. This effort aligns with her belief in reducing financial barriers and enhancing educational opportunities.
Heather Choi was awarded the prestigious Ellis Island Medal of Honor, which honors immigrants contributing significantly to American society. This accolade serves as a testament to her relentless dedication. As a leader in various nonprofits and initiatives, her future plans involve broadening the scope of SMYH to continue serving as a conduit for cultural and educational exchange.
As she progresses, Choi remains committed to inspiring the next generation within the Korean-American community and beyond, harnessing her foundation's potential to foster a culture of giving and support.