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July 31, 2025

The Blessings of Forgiveness

Jacob: A Tale of Forgiveness and Peace

Marc Choi, Senior Pastor at New Jersey Onnuri Church, provides an insightful reflection on the life and lessons from Jacob, a biblical figure noted for his complex and challenging journey. The narrative unfolds in Genesis 33:1-17, offering a rich tapestry of human emotion and divine intervention.


Blessings of the Forgiven

Jacob, known for his relentless pursuit of success, spent two decades away from home after deceiving his brother Esau and father. Despite acquiring wealth and forming a large family during his time abroad, Jacob was tormented by unresolved guilt. His return home was marked by a pivotal encounter when he learned Esau was approaching with 400 men, a development that drove Jacob to fervent prayer.


Remarkably, upon their meeting, Esau embraced Jacob, offering forgiveness instead of vengeance. This unexpected act ended Jacob's two decades of turmoil, highlighting the profound blessing of forgiveness. The narrative draws a parallel with the Parable of the Prodigal Son, emphasizing the divine forgiveness extended by God.


Blessings of the One who Forgives

Esau's experience mirrors a narrative of anger transformed through forgiveness. Initially, the possibility of seeing Jacob must have kindled residual anger over past wrongs. But as Esau witnessed Jacob’s vulnerability and humility, God softened Esau’s heart. The brothers reconciled, and Esau’s wrath gave way to gracious acceptance. Jacob likened Esau’s forgiving visage to that of seeing God’s face.


Esau's transformation underscores the blessings inherent in forgiveness—anger dissipates, and relationships heal. Key to this process is recognizing God as the enabler of forgiveness, a truth emphasized by Charles Swindoll’s words on the destructive power of unforgiveness.


Blessings of the Peacemaker

The story concludes with Jacob settling in a place named "Succoth," meaning "rest" or "refuge," reflecting his newfound inner peace. Free from the burdens of guilt and strife, Jacob’s life embodied tranquility. Forgiveness paved the way for genuine peace, a testament to the biblical adage that true happiness lies in harmony with God and others.


This narrative invites readers to seek the peace bestowed through divine forgiveness and human reconciliation, a theme resonating powerfully for the year ahead.


Contact Information


New Jersey Onnuri Church  
201-461-4010  
www.njonnuri.org


Fort Lee Campus  
1449 Anderson Ave. Fort Lee, NJ 07024


ComeUnity Campus  
605 Pascack Road, Washington Township, NJ 07676


Photo Credit: Onnuri Church Archives