Traditional Korean Wedding Ritual: Pyebaek

New Cultural Introduction to Family

Recently, it has become common for Korean or part-Korean couples in the United States to include the pyebaek ceremony as a part of their wedding celebrations. This practice not only familiarizes guests with Korean wedding customs but also contrasts the pure white, elegant wedding dress with the vibrant colors of a hanbok, showcasing another beautiful aspect of the bride. Receiving words of wisdom along with monetary gifts during the ceremony has proven beneficial for honeymoon expenses, prompting increasing interest among couples.

Written by Haekyung Yoo, Wedding Artist

Significance of Pyebaek

Pyebaek traditionally involves the bride formally greeting her in-laws after the wedding ceremony. It signifies the respect for the in-laws and the aspiration to maintain harmony within the family. While the ritual is kept modest, it is important to approach it with sincerity.

Pyebaek Attire

The groom wears traditional attire consisting of baji (trousers) and jeogori (jacket) along with a samogwandae hat. The bride dons the bridal robe, hwalot, with a decorative headpiece called jokduri, and covers her hands with white hansam.

Preparing the Pyebaek Table

The pyebaek table is prepared by the bride's family and consists of offerings for the groom's family. Let us explore some of the traditional foods and their meanings:

• Chicken: Symbolizes respect for the in-laws, fertility, and diligence. The rooster’s comb signifies the desire to raise a distinguished son.
• Chestnuts and Jujubes: Represent prosperity and offspring, with jujubes symbolizing sons and chestnuts daughters due to their respective yang and yin energies.
• Gujeolpan: The number nine represents fullness and completeness, expressing parental wishes for wealth and good fortune in the couple's new life.
• Beef Jerky (Yukpo): Reflects the acceptance of the daughter-in-law with generosity.

Order of the Pyebaek Ceremony

The ceremony begins by setting up a folding screen, preparing the pyebaek table, and placing glasses of liquor (or tea for Christian or Catholic participants). The couple bows first to the groom’s parents and then to other family members, showing respect. After the bowing, they offer a drink to their elders. This is followed by the elders tossing chestnuts and jujubes into the bride’s skirt alongside their blessings.